Author Topic: Welcome to our forum  (Read 2942 times)

Sooverit

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Re: Welcome to our forum
« Reply #195 on: October 24, 2018, 05:07:14 am »
I am new to this forum. I am relieved to know there are others like me. I am 59 and the youngest child.  My two older sisters moved away and my brother hates my mother. He lives 4 blocks from her and has not gone to see her in 4 months.  She has no idea why.  Well, we all know why.    So I am stuck with her taking her around every Wednesday.  Where do I begin?  She did not come to my wedding, she said she never wanted to know my unborn child when I moved away for a short time....She told me tonight I am never attached to anything (I told her we were going somewhere in December) and I would be leaving our pets at home with a sitter.  She has been a miserable part of my life. She is not a mother but a horrid friend.  It is a relief to vent a few horrible things she has done. Oh the stories I can tell!

Lana

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Re: Welcome to our forum
« Reply #196 on: December 02, 2018, 07:53:28 pm »
Hello all, really glad to see this forum.  My mother basically abused me for 56 years..and when she couldn't do it physically, she did it verbally with emotional jabs.  It continued until two years ago when I went no contact, and refused to attend a family reunion in which her birthday was going to be honored.  My relatives all disowned me.  Whatever...I am breathing easier being away from them all! 

Crushed flower

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Re: Welcome to our forum
« Reply #197 on: December 28, 2018, 10:57:28 pm »
You are not alone,it's awful what these "parents" do to their offspring.my biological mother wanted to abort me so I was told,she walked out when I was 10 to live with her toyboy,went to live with Gran and uncles who made it clear I wasn't welcome,treated me like Cinderella,young spoilt cousin made my life a misery backed by the "adults", went to live with dad at 14 who gleefully said to me - never have kids they are a weight around your neck.I kept house and went to school,he met a woman and aged 16 was told I am getting married but you can't live with us.found mother 30 years later nothing changed her and the stepdad hated me,she even paid for my sister in law to have laser eye treatment,said she would pay for me too when I booked appt she said sorry can't afford it.anyway not seen them for 6 years and never will.I have painfully hawd to accept that none of them will never like/love/want me.to be honest they don't deserve us.

steved

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Re: Welcome to our forum
« Reply #198 on: January 19, 2019, 06:47:18 pm »
WE are family, WE are kindred spirits, WE are shared souls, WE are strong, WE have each other, We are down but NEVER out, We all share much in common, WE will rise above the abuse and neglect. NEVER forget you are NOT ALONE.