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Lovelylove

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Re: Welcome to our forum
« Reply #195 on: June 10, 2019, 10:59:21 am »
Hi my names Sarah I have been struggling with a difficult relationship with my mum all of my life in the last year or so I had a pretty much complete breakdown in the relationships after she had behaved in a very uncaring way (it’s a long story) but it was enough to question having any relationship with her. I have had a lot counselling or the past year and have come to pity her. Now after long a deep thought I know that I don’t want to completely end the relationship with her and I am strong enough now to hold my ground and have coping strategies to deal with her behaviour but a couple months of go I discovered that she blocked me on Facebook. This was horrible because it reinforced that I wasn’t  valued  for who I am. I have not confronted her about as I think these conversation with her are to no end as she often very cruel and unkind, in the past this has been extremely detrimental to my mental health. I do however want to continue having some kind of relationship with her but I find mum trying to cover up her tracks that she deleted me off Facebook, she keeps saying she doesn’t go on it much and when sister posted stuff on there she say she was sent it. This is without me push the subject at all as I had decided to say nothing as didn’t want to have an argument. I can’t decided what to do now, I am find it hard to speak to her when I know I am actively being lied to.   What also strange is a couple of year ago my bad deleted me he got fed up for my political post but I very rarely post now and he didn’t realise he could unfollow me anyway I talked to him about it. So in way I can’t help but feel my mum doing this for some kind of a reaction. Your thoughts and advice would be appreciated